Founding – Why and How We Started

founding finally family homes
Hi! I’m Christina Dronen. My husband, Eric Dronen and I are the founders of Finally Family Homes.

​I thought a good place to start on our blog would be to share how we got started! Finally Family Homes is our vision for helping kids who are aging out of the foster care system without ever having found a family or home. We chose to establish it in Santa Clarita, CA because we think it’s the best location to start helping house and mentor the foster kids who are aging out of foster care.

The idea started a little over 2 years ago…

Our church, Pacific Crossroads, had been talking about the homeless population in Los Angeles, which has gotten worse in recent years.

There are now over 50,000 homeless in LA, nearly 40,000 of those are unsheltered. ​​

Why & How we started a Foster Care Ministry

It was then I found out that foster kids make up a substantial portion of the homeless.

Having an interest tiny homes, I began to put together ideas to use them to help the homeless, but then abandoned them as too overwhelming and unattainable.

​On a more personal level

I had made a friend who was going through a lot of struggles, including an unplanned pregnancy, addiction issues, living on the edge of homelessness, and more. Over the past few years, I helped and connected with her and got to know up close how complicated and difficult it is to survive, especially in LA without a good support system.

I should mention how we “adopted” from China. 

About five years ago, we connected with a young woman attending grad school here from China through our church. She was looking to connect with a family locally. We invited her to join us for holidays, birthdays, and sometimes just to hang out and have dinner.

Now we consider her a part of our family.

​Summer of 2017 I went on the mission trip to Kyrgyzstan with my church.

Our primary work was to help the Kyrgyz church run a local kids camp. With less than 1% of the people there being Christian, helping hands are much needed to help serve the hundreds of kids who attend and to encourage the local church.

​​One of the ministries of this church is to care for the local orphans who have aged out of the system there.

The pastor of the Kyrgyz church was moved to start what is now called Oak House after a little girl at the local orphanage asked “Is it true that when we leave here, the boys will go to jail and the girls will become prostitutes?”

​Sadly, being dumped from the orphanages at 16, it is most often true.

How a mission trip led to the formation of a local ministry

​As I worked at the church, I worked alongside some of the girls being helped by Oak House.

They were sweet, poised, and hopeful.

We got to visit where they live and hear more from them about their experiences. I felt like I was getting to see in action something very close to what I hoped to do here in the US. I felt like the hope and peace I saw in these girls was the result of being invested in personally and I could see this working out back here in California, where the foster care situation is dire.​

Pacific Crossroads Church - Foster Care & Homeless

​​In the past 2 years, our church has focused on foster care, with the Invisibles campaign – educating our congregation and getting them involved in helping foster kids. I started revisiting this idea of helping house homeless former foster kids.

We were saddened to learn how they are over-represented on the streets, in human trafficking, and in prisons.

Eric also loves family, helping others and teaching, so it seemed like a natural fit.

​So here we are, just getting going. Finally Family Homes is unlike most programs in that it is long-term and personal, not just a cold handout to float a child on to the next thing.​ We are looking forward to housing, mentoring, and loving kids who are aging out of foster care. 

We want the ones who are “too old too adopt,” the ones who fell through the cracks, the ones who never landed. We are inviting them to have a family and a home with us, finally.

Foster kids who never got adopted, finally get a home at Finally Family Homes


One purpose of this blog is to help parents of teens navigate the challenges of preparing their children to be successful independent adults. The mission of Finally Family Homes is to provide the same kind of support for those teens who don’t have a family or home to help them transition into adulthood.

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Comments

  1. What a great example of following God’s calling into this amazing ministry. I pray for you and the work as you move forward.

    1. Thank you so much Yvonne! You are an inspiration to me. 🙂

  2. What a blessing to be able to help those people in need. Thank you.

    1. Thanks for the encouragement Melissa! 🙂

  3. This is wonderful, Christina. You and Eric are doing a very necessary work and something dear to God’s heart. Prayers to you two and others who may come alongside you. Thank you for following God’s lead.

    1. Thanks Stephen! We appreciate the prayers. 🙂
      Merry Christmas!

  4. This sounds like a wonderful ministry. I pray the Lord will bless and encourage you all in His service, and I’m looking forward to reading more about it in future posts.

    1. Thanks Chloe! Prayers are much appreciate and needed.
      Merry Christmas!

  5. I really appreciated ready about your initiative and particularly was interested in your comment,Finally Family Homes is unlike most programs in that it is long-term and personal, not just a cold handout to float a child on to the next thing.​ We are looking forward to housing, mentoring, and loving kids who are aging out of foster care. We want the ones who are “too old too adopt,” the ones who fell through the cracks, the ones who never landed. We are inviting them to have a family and a home with us, finally.” What a wonderful mission statement and adventure. So many will be blessed through your endeavours. Have a blessed Christmas.

    1. Thank you! Have a blessed Christmas!
      We are looking for long-term relationships, but it’s up to them of course. 🙂

  6. What an awesome ministry you have! I pray many are touched by your work!

    1. Thank you Julie!
      Me too – we pray that all who come feel loved and included!

  7. I’m praying for God’s leading to begin a ministry in my community. I’d love to hear more about what you’ve begun in your place. God bless and Merry Christmas!

    1. That’s awesome, Nancy! We hope to replicate what we’re doing once we have it worked out & gaining momentum. Please keep following our blog – I’ll keep you updated.
      Merry Christmas!

  8. What a wonderful ministry! I am praying for you and all you do.

    1. Thank you Jessica! We need and appreciate prayers!!
      Merry Christmas!

  9. Wow! This is so great! I hope you will write more about this ministry. Do you have other volunteers working with you? How many kids will you be able to house? How will this be funded? May God bless you with abundant grace and provide for all your needs in the work He has called you to do.

    1. Thanks Anneliese!
      I definitely plan to continue writing more.
      We do have volunteers -yay! But will need more I’m sure. 🙂
      We will house 6 until our ministry can expand.
      We will be funded through grants, donors, and hope to set up an income stream as well.
      Thank you for your encouragement / prayers!!!

  10. Wow! What a wonderful ministry you have. My heart hurts for these kids! Thanks for linking up at InstaEncouragements! Followed you on Twitter and Pinterest. Thank you for what you are doing!!!

  11. This is wonderful! Thank you for starting this ministry, and for giving me some serious food for thought . . . which I’d like to find a way to turn into action.

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